Relationships are Tough. (Choice)

Ever want something so bad you can just taste it. Well, not literally, but you get my drift. I'm a seventeen year old girl. One who loves hard as you could say. Which is a great thing and can be a bad thing as well. Many may say that the relationship thing isn't for them, that they rather not go through the hassle or that it takes up too much of their time. I on the otherhand, I kinda like it. I've been in this relationship now for over a year and it has had its hardships, its great sides, downfalls and triumphs and through it all we're still sticking through it. Kind of got this feeling that I've found someone I can call a good friend. That I can share secrets with and know that they won't tell the entire world and that makes me feel comfortable. Despite the fact that we may get on each others very last nerves, the feelings are mutual and our love for each other is definitely mutual. Throughout everything I've realized that it's not always sugar and pie. Arguments and disagreements are sometimes just a part of growing with one another, knowing each others boiling points or certain areas that may 'tick' us off. Hearing stories from friends, my mother and family members, they've told me what I may have in store in a relationship. Everything I should tell myself to get use to or how I should handle some situations. There's their advice and then there's the whole thing of just doing it on my own and that's when the tough part comes in. 50/50. I know you've heard that term before. That shouldn't exist in a relationship. Atleast that's the way that I tend to see it. I believe that each person shall give 100 percent effort and time into the relationship. Although, I know, I know, that just may be one of the hardest things to do sometime, it will all be worth it in the long run. Giving each other that extra little push makes all the difference. So I plan on keeping myself ready to push as long as I need to. :)♥